Помогите, срочно!!!! 60 баллов write what you think can cause misunderstanding between parents and teenagers

Im sixteen and I have got a lot of problems. For example : how to spend free time and what to do after finishing school. The problem number one is the problem of parents and children. All teens want to be independent , we dont like when our parents try to rule every step of our life. Our parents dont like our clothes and music. They often try to treat us like small children. But if you want to solve this problem , you must try to understand each other. Some teens begin smoking and drinking alcohol to show that they are grown-ups. You should do anything to make your parents happy.